怎样评论“范冰冰李晨分手后聚餐”

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作者:李晓义

一个有着深情香气的女人(ID: lixiaoyilhyxqdnz)

人们生活在自己的规则中要比生活在别人的口中容易得多。

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我想把我的八卦打扮得不是太俗气,但总是失败。在过去的两天里,我没有太注意“范冰冰和李承轩分手”。

上周,两人分手并导致微博分手,打破了文案“我们不再是我们,我们仍然是我们”被评估的不像是一个像伙伴一样分手的情人;

不久之后,媒体首次出现在李晨分手后,标题是:“浮动飞机暗示恢复自由,充满笑容非常幸福。”

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在分手后的第三天,两人被拍到相遇。评论说:

“这是一场破碎的游戏还是一个坦率的局?”

“李晨打算送一块心形石头来分手!”

“或者你想分手庆祝一波浪潮?”

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我认为随着范冰冰和李晨的流动,无论外表如何,都会有各种评价。

就像在分手的第二天被捕的李晨一样,即使他没有表现出喜悦,但他的表情黯淡而且不苟言笑,娱乐冠军可能会变成另一个:李晨的脸变成了叔叔,情况分手后令人失望。

作为明星,既然您享受着注意力的好处,您还必须承担公众人物的隐私。将推测和分析它们的任何微妙表达和动作。

这也是因为它适应了尖端的生命,明星比普通人强多了。如果这种讨论是针对普通人的,他们迫不及待地想要解释每个路人数千次,然后他们就越黑了。

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就像我一样,在处理“注意力程度”时,我已?チ恕?

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在我工作的第一年,我碰巧遇到了一个方便的职位和一位非常感谢我的领导。所以我打破了晋升的速度,并在今年上半年获得了第一次晋升机会。

当时,在21岁的时候,即使我与现在分开了20年,我仍然可以听到心脏跳动的声音。

由于温柔,我有一个丰富的内心戏剧:

你想感谢部门老板的帮助吗?你想为每个人买下午茶吗?你明天穿什么样的衣服谦虚?所以,我当时买了最好的下午茶。第二天,我穿得很明白,对每个人都笑了。

当我给老板一块蛋糕时,他仔细地看了一下精致的甜点,并对我说:“接下来,你最好做好心理准备。”

我走了一圈他的办公室。

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第二天,有好朋友在同一时期加入公司:

“你的蛋糕昨天相当昂贵?其他人说你的父亲是总经理的同学,他的晋升速度很快。你应该小心,不要告诉别人我告诉过你,否则我什么都不做。我知道。“

我感到震惊。经过几天的财务报销,姐姐小姐轻声问候我:

“你没有穿这样的巅峰。这不符合20岁女孩的特征。特别是假装低调,特别是心脏。你自己知道,更不用说你自己了姐姐提醒你!“

听完之后我感到很震惊,并决定纠正它。

So I don't ask for afternoon tea anymore, and my clothes are brightly dressed, and I deliberately keep a distance for everyone.

About two months later, the small partners who joined the company reminded me again:

"You don't ask everyone to eat, don't eat everyone's things, it seems very uncooperative. In addition, you change clothes every day, making us very stressed, the office is more beautiful than the United States. Hey, I am with you. I will tell you!"

With my 21-year-old experience, my nerves are almost in a mess, and I have to deal with such complicated and varied evaluations. I went home and cried one night.

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The next day, the mood was low, and the eyelids were swollen like goldfish. The boss looked at me questioningly and asked if there was something at home. My inner drama came up again. Just like a big family being bullied, I suddenly met a grandfather and wife who presided over justice. Hesitated. Do you want to say? How do you say that you are not like a despicable informant and a careful eye?

As a result, the boss himself guessed it, first laughed:

"You just broke the job because of the promotion? Hahaha, do you remember that I said that your psychological quality is stronger? People who have a little sense of existence, no matter what they do, there will be people who talk about it. If you wear red, others will say that you wear white." Good-looking, you have strong affinity, others will say that you have no opinion, you will be crisp and there will be people who evaluate you are not close to human feelings, but if the behavior is reversed, the bad reviews also exist, unless you are like the air, there is no sense of existence.

How to do it? Don't bother.

It is much easier for people to live in their own rules than to live in the mouths of others.

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I am very glad that I understood it early and basically did it.

However, paying attention to other people's comments, just like not spreading their own things well, is a kind of strong self-protection, not insincere, but living quietly, safely and freely in the land of self-retention.

Save time and save emotions.

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在上周充满娱乐新闻的热门搜索中,89岁的袁隆平先生在热门搜索中仅排名第14位。他在长沙举办的中非农业合作与发展研讨会上发表了英语演讲:

“我们正致力于超级杂交水稻,非常愿意帮助其他发展中国家解决粮食短缺问题。”

在视频中,他老了又慢,但今天我特别希望你能看到这个视频:

不久前,他指导杂交水稻在非洲创造了高产的记录。原产量每公顷3吨增加到10.8吨。在中国,杂交水稻年产量的增加可以支持近8000万人口。

袁老也遭到袭击。

十多年前,他陪同家人去看湖南车展。他与梅赛德斯 - 奔驰合影,并立即引发了“科学家们开了一辆豪车”的猜测,甚至打破了“房子里有七八辆豪车”的消息。

国家奖励科学研究并为他准备了一套套房,但在传说中它变成了“袁隆平住在豪宅里,生活很奢侈”。

事实上,这种“奢侈品”被他改变成了一个研究室。他带领团队在这里成功培育了耐海水盐碱大米。这一成就的实践可以使中国每年增加500亿公斤的粮食产量。超过2亿人被抚养长大。

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面对各种各样的言论,全年都穿着35元旧衬衫的科学家从未解释过,时间宝贵,他可能没有精力去听,看,消化无关的论点。

世界的势利永远是结果的英雄,结果往往需要漫长的等待。在漫长的等待,忙碌的争吵和辩论中,大多数人都被各种噪音分心,无法专注于真正的目标,所以什么也没做。

Whether it is a great person, a shining star or an ordinary person like me, it will be evaluated and discussed. Since there are some words that are not you and I can control, why bother?

Since some things are always more and more black, why bother to argue? Since some of them will exist anyway, why bother?

Today is another weekend, maybe we have accumulated a good mood for a week, maybe we have also precipitated a week of grievances.

I hope that you who see this article can put down the pressure of being "badly evaluated", believe in your decisions and words and deeds, and don't find a block for yourself, and have a good weekend.

xx